To work in life to overcome hardness with softness is a deep spiritual teaching we can all work on. Consider water – the epitome of softness, but with amazing abilities to carve out the Grand Canyon. How can apply this to our lives, and flow when it is time to flow, actively when required and more gentle when more appropriate and even, at times, be perfectly still and calm? How can we work like water, with fortitude and patience and power and grace, overcoming our hardness with softness – in a positive way for ourselves and each other?
Cultivating Ourselves, Together 
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